Ask Lisa

If you've ever been in a dating rut, baffled by the reactions of the opposite sex, concerned about where and how to connect with appropriate partners or just confused about your romantic future, Ask Lisa.

Lisa Bentsen is a marriage counselor, feature writer, singles advocate, and the founder of Single Search National's award winning matchmaking service. She has been appointed as one of the nation's leading experts on dating and matchmaking buy the National Association of Ethical Matchmakers and is a member of (ISIS) the International Society of Introduction Services. Her experiences span 18 years of counseling singles, couples and matchmaking. She has appeared on numerous talk-shows and has been the moderator of Love-Link, a singles talk radio program.

The Single Search system, founded in 1988 has produced hundreds of compatible marriages and boasts a only a 1% divorce rate among couples matched in the Single Search system.

If you have questions or concerns about your romantic path, intimate relationships or dating in the 90's, Lisa will answer you by e-mail, guiding you to a more fulfilling social future.

Ms Bentsen is currently penning a book on finding a soulmate and would like to have your input on what types of men and women are most attractive to modern singles. Describe the personality traits and interests that you find most appealing and tell her what behaviors sending you running for the hills or what behaviors warm your heart and encourage you to look closer at the relationship.

Your questions and comments will be held in the strictest of confidence.